The sense of inaction and feeling lost arises from internal chaos, making it hard to pinpoint and tackle a specific issue.
Here, I present five prevalent challenges that often hinder individuals from reaching their full potential:
1. False Boundaries
False Boundaries arise when a person perceives limitations on their abilities that aren’t actually present.
For instance, consider Alexander, who lost his job due to an economic recession. After multiple local job rejections, he developed the belief that he could never return to his cherished profession.
In truth, the crisis impacted only that specific city and industry. Alexander’s skills remain in demand across numerous domains, necessitating a choice: he could relocate and seek opportunities elsewhere, or he could leverage his knowledge and experience in a different field.
2. The Gloomy Scenario
The Gloomy Scenario surfaces when an individual succumbs to the belief that all their endeavors are futile or hopeless, convinced that this is the objective reality.
Consider Nadia, who witnessed grossly unethical behavior among her colleagues, shattering her faith in humanity. She resigned from her job and spent months consumed by the notion that the world was plunging into chaos and people were even worse than she had thought.
While Nadia yearned to work, her profound disillusionment immobilized her. To counter the Gloomy Scenario, it’s vital to remember that the world isn’t confined to the transgressions of individuals or isolated unfortunate events. It spans far wider, offering numerous avenues to manifest our potential.
3. Bad Advice
The issue of bad advice arises when influential figures attempt to impose their worldview on others.
Max, a musician who relocated to a new country, was faced with decisions about his next steps. His well-intentioned friends began dissuading Max from pursuing a career in music. They believed it would inevitably lead to failure. However, none of these friends had any background in the music industry. Their guidance emanated from personal experiences and limited knowledge. Essentially, they were conveying: “If we were in your shoes, we wouldn’t succeed.” This perspective is valid for them, as they are not musicians and have no insight into the potential of a music career. But Max’s situation is distinct since he is a professional musician.
In such cases, the opinions of established experts carry weight, while advice from those unfamiliar with the field is merely subjective musings that can be disregarded entirely.
4. Energy Drain
The problem of dwindling energy becomes pronounced when external factors or circumstances force an individual to suppress their natural inclinations.
Consider Anna, an Explorer by personality type, thriving on new experiences and discoveries. However, her last few years were spent in a repetitive routine as she cared for her young children. This monotonous existence left her subconscious incredibly unstimulated, pushing it into an energy-conservation mode. With waning energy, Anna found herself unable to initiate activities that would reinvigorate her, leading to a cycle of stagnation.
The solution involves steadfastly recalling your true self and purpose. Engaging in activities aligned with your natural disposition grants the energy needed for fresh endeavors, allowing you to seize opportunities. Operating in an energy-conservation mode leads to mere survival, devoid of genuine pleasure.
Apply the airplane rule: Secure your oxygen mask first before assisting others.
5. Subconscious Takeover
The Substitution of the “Boss” occurs when individuals relinquish decision-making to their subconscious, especially during crises, as the subconscious deems it a safer course.
The issue lies in the subconscious’s obliviousness to the contemporary era; it operates based on scenarios fit for our primitive ancestors. For instance, a Keeper’s subconscious tends to exaggerate dangers, causing incessant worrying. On the contrary, an Explorer’s subconscious, when unchecked, can bypass caution and compel actions destined for future regret.
Recurring troubles might signal that you’ve defaulted to autopilot mode, letting your subconscious steer your destiny. Remember, the subconscious isn’t a ruler but a supply manager, ensuring your internal affairs are in order. Consciousness, on the other hand, should interact with the external world and make prudent decisions about the future.
Crafting Your Narrative
With the “antagonists” identified, it’s time to weave your story. This narrative chronicles your journey as the protagonist (you) striving to attain their aspirations, only to face specific hurdles. Nonetheless, they conquer each challenge that comes their way.
Consultation and Beyond
If you’re eager to dissect your circumstances, pinpoint the barriers obstructing your success, and unlock your potential, consider scheduling a consultation with me. Let go of vague explanations like “I’m just naturally lazy” or “My self-doubt is the root of my problems”—these are outcomes, not causes. We will uncover and address the actual problems and turn chaos into order in less than an hour. Reviews from previous consultations can be accessed through this link.